A Zippy Pregnancy
At our next meeting, however, he said that he saw something a little different about the heart, but could be nothing, so he referred us to a pediatric cardio specialist. She did an echo-cardiogram. This indicated there the above heart defects, but she thought they would be reparable and while they sound scary, they are fairly common, like 8 in 1000. This was months before delivery, however, so things could improve by then. Okay, we accepted that our baby would likely need some sort of treatment after delivery. But she also said we could not deliver at the hospital near our house (I can literally see it out my kitchen window), but would have to deliver in Dallas so the baby would be at a facility that could provide that kind of care.
Well, Stephanie works in SW Ft Worth. She didn't like the idea that she would have to drive 60 miles across DFW for all these doctor visits. Plus, what if she was at work and went into labor during rush hour? It would be impossible to get there in less than 2 hours. So we told her OB that we would prefer to do this in Ft Worth.
This meant that we would have to get a whole new team of doctors, including OB. The delivery would be at Harris Hospital in downtown FtW and the baby would go next door to Cooks Childrens Hospital, so we would have to get new doctors that practice at that hospital. So we met with a new perinatal, cardio, OB and thoracic doctors over the next few weeks. Oh yeah, and Stephanie also developed gestational diabetes, despite her very healthy pregnancy specific diet. So we got to meet with a nutritionist and nurse practitioner about that.
Things were going well. She had no high blood pressure, swelling, hardly any nausea. But she did have an episode where she felt pain in her upper abdomen. She couldn't really identify it, so we called the ob's office. The nurse practitioner on call told her to take a hot bath and try aceteminophen. This relieved things and we figured it was upset tummy. Over the next week or two she had 2 more episodes like this. One was after eating too many rich foods, so we thought it might also be due to blood sugar issues from the diabetes.
But then they got worse. Over the next week she had two or three more. They always happened in the evening and the only relief was the hot bath. The "attacks" as I call them seemed to get worse and take longer to go away. She told both her OB's office and also the new perinatal doctor. They told us it was probably just normal aches & pains from pregnancy. It's not uncommon for nausea to return in the 3rd trimester, either. They hear a pregnant lady say she has trouble breathing and an upset tummy and don't think much of it--especially for first-time parents, I bet.
I was still worried, but what could we do? Besides the baby was always looking good in the sonogram and had plenty of movement the whole time. So we tried not to worry too much.
Thursday Jan 3 we saw the perinatal doctor again. She said the ultrasound looked good, but the baby was smaller than it should be at this point (3lbs vs 4-5). This was enough for her to tell us that we would have to come in for monitoring twice a week until delivery. We set up an appointment for the following Tuesday. In the meantime, we tried to talk to the baby and tell it to get bigger.
Well, on Monday Stephanie had another attack and it was the worst one yet. She had to have someone drive her home from work. She could hardly breathe and the pain lasted for almost an hour. It was very scary for us both. But finally she started feeling better, and the next morning was the doctor visit so we felt better because we could tell her about it then.
I also forgot to mention that for a while there she also had placenta previa, which did correct itself, and that the baby was breach for the entire term. But in actuality the whole thing was less scary than it probably sounds (except for the last attack). We knew that the baby was moving a lot, which the doctors said was great, and on the sonograms exhibited good breathing motions. They "breathe" the amnio fluid into their lungs to develop them and the chest muscles. Again, we were told this is very good and you don't always see it during the short sonogram sessions. So this was encouraging.
Tuesday's visit was not with the doctor, but a nurse or technician who did the sonogram. The baby's movement was really good. We told her about what happened the night before, but she didn't seem that concerned about it. Then they put Stephanie on a fetal monitor to observe fetal heartbeat and contractions. During this she got a massive headache and her blood pressure was high (for the first time ever). The doctor said that there was something not right about the way that the baby's heartbeat was reacting to the contractions. So she sent us down the street to Harris to the Maternal Observation ward so they could monitor her. Our new OB (who I had yet to meet) was also paged and told to expect us there...
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2 Comments:
At January 19, 2008 at 1:14 PM ,
Anonymous said...
Brian, thanks for posting.
Yes, we are lucky to live in the time that we live, and health care is a big reason. Yuo family is beautiful, and I am thankful that they are doing well!
Best regards, Tom Warr
At January 19, 2008 at 2:12 PM ,
Anonymous said...
Wow! I didn't know most of this - it does sound scary, but I'm so thankful that Sophie and Stephanie are doing so well now.
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